It was an odd day for me. My grandmother passed away last Sunday, and her funeral was on Friday, so it was a day of happiness but also reflection, and sorrow for my own Mum who was going through her first Mother's Day without her mum. Nan was 93 and had been quite ill for some time, so there was some sense of relief that she isn't suffering any more when she passed, but I feel sad for the lost opportunities I had when she was well to be able to probe her skills and wealth of knowledge of "Nana technology". Before the Alzheimer's Disease took hold, and well before I considered any of those skills as potentially useful...
Anyway, my family asked me what I wanted to do for the day, and of course I couldn't go past an opportunity to spend the day pottering in the garden, especially since the sun was shining :-) I wandered outside just after a lovely breakfast of buckwheat pancakes, and didn't come back in until dinner time! Although by that stage I was starving hungry and busting to go to the loo as one member of my family had inadvertently locked me outside when they went off visiting family for three hours!!
Nevermind, I did stacks of those jobs you never seem to get the time to do, like moving everything under the pergola (lots of pots!) and sweeping it out, and tidying up the plants before putting them back. A bit like decluttering, only outside, LOL.
As far as presents go, I decided in the end to ask for the Home Brew Kit for my birthday next month, as I still had several fruit trees that needing potting up. So two large pots were on the cards, and one trip to the nursery later, we came home with two pots that almost match the two existing pots in our front yard and several bags of certified organic potting mix. DH then potted up the two dwarf Golden Dorsett apple trees I purchased some time ago from Daley's Fruit Trees, and stuck them out the front next to the dwarf Anna and dwarf Tropic Sweet apples. They all look a bit dodgy at the moment as the weather is cooling down, but come spring time I am hoping they will grow into a lovely looking apple tree "hedge" in front of our north-west-facing front windows, providing some additional shading to our lounge room.

9 comments:
{{HUGS}} re your Nan :(
Hi,
Sorry to hear about your Nan.
Spirited loved ones often fight long and hard for those a few extra years. I hope your Mum can journey to to Mothers day being a gentle reflection rather than a painful loss.
Kind Regards
Belinda
Sorry to hear about your Nan. Somehow even when someone is old and sick it is still a shock in the end. I'm glad you were able to have a quiet day in the garden. I went out for a coffee and read my book for a while and it was perfect.
It is always very difficult to lose a loved one, no matter how prepared we are, that loss is still felt as keenly.
My personal thoughts are that they leave in body only, they continue to look over our shoulder, I had some really weird experiences after my grandmothers death, I still feel her around me.
I am tickled that the soapwort plant post & recipes are of use, sometimes blogging can be hard, wondering if we are posting thoughts and articles others may be interested in. I enjoy your blog tremendously:)
Blessings
I'm really sorry to hear about your Nan.
Kathy
((hugs)) sorry to hear about your Nan.
Wishing you and your family peace.
Happy Belated Mother's Day. You sounded like you had a very healing day.
I spent part of Mother's day in the garden too. My husband tilled it for my in the afternoon as it is just getting time for us to plant here.
Hi Ladies,
Thank you all so very much for your kind words and cyber-hugs, they really mean a lot :-) Such a lovely bunch of people out there!
Cheers, Julie
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